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The story usually ends with “I told them no because you should not judge someone by the color of their skin” or “I said you shouldn’t do that because it’s racist.” Can we just have a normal date where we talk about what we like to do for fun or what we do for a living?Sometimes White men will go on and on about their Black friends thinking that it will somehow impress you.This sort of reminds me of the times when White people say something inappropriate, and get accused of racism, but then quickly reply “There’s no way I’m racist because my friend is Black.” Although, the issue with your date wouldn’t be racism, the conclusion is still the same.I am more concerned with YOU, than who your friends are.Generally speaking, it’s not a good idea to get into a deep discussion about politics on a first date, but for some reason, White men will sometimes want to know what you think about certain popular issues concerning African Americans.Don’t take this the wrong way, it’s not that I mind discussing it, but I just feel like these issues shouldn’t be the first things you think of when we go for a first date.The point is, stop trying to prove to me that you’re “down” with whatever.
It’s not that they do it on purpose, but it’s just that sometimes make certain comments that can seem annoying or even inappropriate.
After all, I am on a date with YOU, and not your friends.
Having Black friends won’t help the situation if you have the personality of burnt toast.
I did what high school grads did in those days, moved the F&ck out from under mom&dad's control to make it any way I could, which was married with two kids and a serious career, an ultimate surrender. Saw my daughter raise hers, watched my son's family enjoy more success/stress than I ever did. Several blue moons and few familial breakups later the nest got pretty lonely, as if the life around me was catching up to pass my tired ass by. I was sitting drinking coffee minding mine when a tall~Black~woman walks, no, '. It's always better to meet~up face to face where you control the edge.
Once I found she was single, there was nothin' could stop, would stop, ever stop me. Read his intentions just as you would for any other color of man.
I never fully forgave my parents for hiding the world from me all those years.